Delayed Ejaculation All You Need to Know
Most men ejaculate within two to four minutes after penetration. But those who suffer from delayed ejaculation are unable to ejaculate or reach it after making a great effort and prolonged intercourse (30 to 45 minutes). Although premature ejaculation is one of the most widespread sexual dysfunctions in the male gender, late or delayed ejaculation is also considered a sexual problem. This problem only occurs when the man ejaculates in the vagina after long and protracted efforts coital stimulation.
Fortunately, there is a common condition: it is estimated that between one and four percent of men may suffer it at some point in their lives. Experts estimate that causes this disorder may be associated with certain diseases such as diabetes, neuropathies which alter the sensitivity and therefore is not achieved enough excitement. It may also be the result of some hormonal processes lethargic action, or consumption of drugs that inhibit sexual function, such as antidepressants and those who take for hypertension. In other cases it may be the result of damaged nerves during prostate surgery or a spinal injury. Even alcohol can produce the retarding effect in certain individuals. But most of the time, this has a psychological disorder. It may also be related to the pattern of masturbation. The conditioning patterns caused by unique or atypical masturbation traumatic event, such as being discovered in masturbation, may influence the occurrence of this problem.
Treatment is an option If the man has never ejaculated through any form of stimulation such as wet dreams, masturbation or intercourse, you should consult a urologist to determine if there is a congenital or physical. However, if the person is able to ejaculate in a reasonable period of time with some form of stimulation, seek sex therapy with a specialist in this area. Treatment in these cases, usually includes both partners. Communication in couples therapist will usually educate the couple about the fundamentals of sexual response and how to communicate and guide the partner to provide ideal stimulation, rather than trying to will a sexual response. Therapy commonly involves a series of tasks for the couple in the privacy of home, where they engage in sexual activities that minimize performance pressure and focus mainly on pleasure. No sex allowed for a limited period, while the couple gradually enhances their ability to enjoy ejaculation through other types of stimulation. In cases in which there is a problematic relationship or an inhibition of sexual desire between the couple may be required as a preliminary step therapy to enhance the relationship and emotional intimacy.
Retarded or delayed ejaculation is simply the difficulty some men to ejaculate, despite strong sexual arousal. It occurs most often during sex with a partner during masturbation.
Finally, some men can achieve an orgasm with some partners and not others, or can not ejaculate with the beloved, and easily ejaculate sex. Other ejaculate at night during sleep, but awake not ejaculate, and there in smaller numbers that can not ejaculate under any circumstances.
Differentiating a psychological cause of an organic cause
To know the difference between a psychological origin of an organic cause of Delayed Ejaculation is often very easy: if you ejaculate at night (wet dreams), or masturbation, or with a partner but not another, its Delayed Ejaculation is psychological in origin. But the thing is usually not so simple, and in all other cases, it will find an organic cause, which will make your doctor, before speaking of a psychological origin.
Psychological causes of delayed ejaculation
Vices acquired during solitary masturbation. He may have acquired by practice patterns constraints unique or atypical masturbation. How to overcome them is below (section on Disability cum “).
Shame or guilt by strict religious background, or previous trauma related to sex: for example, have been caught masturbating.
Stress, anxiety, nervousness or depression.
He does not feel sexually attracted to your partner or created, rightly or wrongly, that this is having an affair outside the relationship. It may also influence fear her pregnant.
Conflicts of sexual orientation. It may be a repressed homosexual
Discomfort during intercourse
Unpleasant intercourse can delay orgasm. Here are some possible causes. That this man phimosis (tightness of the foreskin) and intercourse is painful because of the lack of sliding the foreskin over the glans and penis. This can be corrected by surgery.
That woman has not well lubricated and penetration a nuisance for the male. This is arranged using sexual lubricants unless it can be fixed at source, ie, we should ask ourselves before that because she does not lubricate well (if you have not gone through menopause).
Consequences of delayed ejaculation
Very often, comes with a Delayed Ejaculation anorgasmia, in contrast to retrograde ejaculation. This will gradually anorgasmia man to a lack of motivation for sexual acts.
As for the female partner, lives that Delayed Ejaculation bad because he feels responsible and unable to seek your partner orgasm. That failure, the couple often feels guilty, and wondered whether a lack of attraction is not responsible for the absence of ejaculation!